Emotional Fluency · Keynote Speaker · Consultant · Author
Emotional fluency
is the future of
everything.
The organizations and people who get this right
aren't just doing better. They are building something that lasts.
Here is something nobody talks about enough.
Most of us were never actually taught how to work with our emotions. We were not taught in school, at work and definitely not in the personal relationships we care so much about.
Emotional fluency is the skill that changes that.
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What brought you here?
People land here for very different reasons.
But here is what most of them have in common: something is not quite working the way it should. And they have a feeling, just a feeling, that the answer has something to do with how we connect.
You need a speaker who actually delivers.
Not someone who leaves your audience feeling good for 45 minutes and forgotten by Thursday. You need someone who gives them a framework they will still be using six months later.
See Workplace Keynotes →Your people are not disengaged because they stopped caring.
They are exhausted from caring without the tools to communicate it. You can feel it in your retention numbers, your exit interviews, and the meetings where everyone nods and nobody says what they actually think.
Explore consulting →You love the people in your life. And somehow the same conversations keep going sideways.
You are not bad at relationships. What is more likely is that nobody ever handed you a real map for this stuff. Emotional fluency is that map. And it is more learnable than anyone told you it was.
Start here →Nobody taught you how to do this part.
Not how to say what you actually feel without it coming out wrong. Not how to stay present when everything in you wants to fix it or leave. Most men were handed tools for everything except the inside work. This is where that changes.
This is for you →Looking for a voice that is both clinically credible and actually fun to listen to?
Moe Ari Brown is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the Love & Connection Expert at Hinge, which is a very fancy way of saying Moe makes the complicated stuff feel human.
Get the media kit →Start with the framework.
Emotional intelligence tells you that feelings matter. Emotional fluency teaches you what to do with them. There is a real difference, and that difference is what every piece of this work is built on.
Learn the framework →The Framework
What is emotional fluency?
Emotional intelligence tells you that feelings matter. Emotional fluency teaches you what to do with them.
Most people have spent years being told that emotions are important, in leadership, in parenting, in relationships, in teams. And they believe that. They just do not always know what to do on a Tuesday afternoon when a conversation goes sideways.
Emotional fluency is the practice of recognizing what you are feeling, naming it accurately, and actually doing something useful with it. Not suppressing it. Not performing it. Using it.
Explore the work →In your relationships
You can name what you are feeling before it comes out sideways. You can hear what someone else is really asking even when they are not saying it clearly.
In your leadership
You read a room instead of just running a meeting. You regulate in real time and make decisions that account for human complexity without losing sight of outcomes.
In your organization
Turnover drops. The hard conversations get easier. People stop performing for each other and start actually working together.
The honest truth
This is not about being more sensitive. It is about being more effective. And it turns out those two things are a lot more connected than most organizations want to admit.
Moe Ari Brown is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, cultural strategist, and one of the most trusted voices in emotional intelligence today. For over 13 years, Moe has translated the science of human behavior into real-world transformation, in therapy rooms, boardrooms, and on stages around the world.
Featured in the New York Times, TIME, and PBS NewsHour. Love & Connection Expert at Hinge. President of the Customer Advisory Board at SimplePractice. Speaker at Cornell University, Northwestern University, and beyond.