Relationship Keynotes
Your audience already knows something is missing. They just keep calling it the wrong thing.
They blame dating apps, they blame their exes, they blame themselves. The real issue is simpler and more fixable than any of that. Most people were never taught how to be in relationships. Even more than than that, most people were not taught the skills necessary to build lasting connection, to communicate well, and deepen intimacy as you grow together over time. Emotional fluency is that skill, and it changes everything once your audience has it.
Your Audience Has Probably Already Tried Other Methods
Most people who want help in their relationships already tried other methods and have done some self-work. Those other methods did not work because other tools were only made for specific problems, not to lay the foundation for lasting relationships.
They learned their attachment style and still can't figure out what to do with it
They took the quizzes, they read the books, and they can even name their patterns in a heartbeat. But knowing they are anxiously attached doesn't help them when they are spiraling at midnight over an unanswered text. The Emotional Fluency Framework™ offers skills they can actually put into practice immediately following Moe's talk.
They keep choosing good people and still go through the same difficult communication cycles in relationships
The reason the same cycles happen in their relationships is not a problem they are creating. The other person is not the problem either. What's missing is the ability to navigate the hard moments without shutting down, blowing up, or quietly pulling away. Those moments are where trust and emotional safety in relationships are actually built. Most people have never been given a blueprint for how to navigate them until now.
They've heard every piece of relationship advice, and none of it sticks when things get real
"Communicate better." "Set boundaries." "Be vulnerable." The advice is everywhere, and none of it comes with instructions for what to do when your chest gets tight, and the words won't come out right. That gap between knowing and doing is where emotional fluency lives. The Emotional Fluency Framework™ takes the work of relationships from theory to lived daily practice.
They think they're bad at love when they're actually just learning a new language entirely.
"Maybe I'm just not good at relationships." "Maybe I am too much". "If I didn't grow up with my father, how would I know how to be a good husband?" These are the quiet beliefs many people bring into every relationship. Most people carry those thoughts around for years.
The truth is, none of us were taught how to be emotionally aware, accountable, differentiated, integrated, expressive, or consistent. Relationships require this specific set of skills, and those skills can be learned through The Emotional Fluency Framework™. That reframe alone will change how your audience shows up in their relationships immediately following Moe's talk.
Signature Talks
Keynotes that give your audience something they can actually use in their next conversation.
What We're Really Looking For: The Psychology of Modern Love
We have more ways to connect than ever and somehow connection has never felt harder to find. This talk draws from relationship science, clinical practice, and real human experience to help your audience understand what they're actually looking for in love, why they keep missing it, and what becomes possible when they stop optimizing for the right person and start building the skills to be a better partner.
Keynote · 45–60 min · Workshop available
You're Not Bad at Relationships. You're Just Not Fluent Yet.
Most people carry a quiet belief that they're just not good at this. This talk replaces that story with something more useful: a framework. Moe walks audiences through the Emotional Fluency Framework and shows them exactly where their patterns live, what those patterns are trying to protect, and how to build the specific skills that change how they show up in every relationship that matters.
Keynote · 45–60 min · Fireside chat available
The Fluency Gap: Why Knowing Your Attachment Style Isn't Enough
Your audience has taken the quizzes and read the books. They can name their attachment style, their love language, their Enneagram number. What they can't do is use any of that when things get hard on a Tuesday night. This talk bridges the gap between self-knowledge and relational skill, and gives them a framework that works when it counts.
Keynote · 45–60 min · Workshop available
Love in the Age of Algorithms: What Hinge Data Tells Us About How We Connect
As the Love and Connection Expert at Hinge, Moe has access to data most relationship experts don't. This talk combines that data with clinical insight to answer the questions your audience is actually asking: Why does dating feel so exhausting? What are the patterns that predict lasting connection? And what does the research say about what people really want when they swipe?
Keynote · 45–60 min · Fireside chat available
What You Get
Every engagement is designed around your audience.
Pre-event discovery call
Moe's team learns who's in the room, what they're navigating, and what you want them to walk away with. Every talk is built from that conversation.
Customized content
A campus audience and a wellness retreat need different things. Every keynote is adapted to your audience's age, stage, and the questions they're actually living with.
A framework, not just a feeling
Your audience leaves with the Emotional Fluency Framework. Something they can use in their next conversation, not just applaud and forget.
Multiple formats
Keynotes, workshops, fireside chats, Q&A sessions, multi-part series. In-person and virtual. Built around what your event needs.
Post-talk resources
Optional follow-up guides, relationship tools, and framework materials your audience can take home and actually use.
Fast, human communication
Moe's team responds within 48 hours. For time-sensitive bookings, we prioritize. Real humans, real timelines.